Deborah Lee Miller

Person-centred Pluralistic Therapist

About Me

Loss, anxiety, and uncertainty are natural parts of life, but they can sometimes feel overwhelming, significantly impacting your quality of life. As a therapist and former GP specialising in palliative care, my experience lies in supporting people through bereavement, cancer, ageing, dementia as well as its effects on those accompanying them, chronic illness and pain, migration, and life's many transitions.

The combination of both careers has taught me that our physical, emotional, social, and spiritual wellbeing are deeply connected, and that meaningful care must address the whole person.

As a person-centred pluralistic therapist, I believe that every person has the capacity to find their own way forward when offered a safe, trusting, and non-judgemental space. Therapy is collaborative: I bring my experience, while you bring the knowledge of your own life. Together we find the unique approach that meets your needs at any particular moment. I also work from a trauma-informed perspective, prioritising your safety, autonomy, and sense of control.

Grief and loss extend far beyond bereavement. There can be the effects of loss attached to retirement, relocation, ageing, chronic illness, dementia, cancer, becoming a carer, or living with anxiety and depression. Anything that moves you from a world you have assumed you will have into an unfamiliar and uncertain space can bring these challenges. Whatever the source of your loss, therapy can provide space to make sense of change, explore difficult emotions, and reconnect with yourself.

I offer therapy in person, online, and by telephone, with flexible appointments where possible. Home visits may also be available by arrangement, helping make therapy as accessible and supportive as possible.

My Specialisms

I work with adults facing a wide range of difficulties, including:

• Grief and bereavement (including by suicide)
• The impact of life-changing or life-limiting illnesses including chronic illnesses, pain and cancer
• Cognitive decline/ dementia
• end-of-life care.
• The emotional impact of aging
• Support for carers and families.
• Life transitions and adjustments - menopause, retirement, loss of a loved one
• Relocation and immigration

I offer the option of working with creative methods including sand tray work. This can be helpful when things are just too painful to say allowed or buried in trauma, or to access issues that feel confused, stuck or out of reach.

Who I Work With

Throughout my career, I’ve worked with people from a wide range of backgrounds, cultures, faiths, ages and life experiences. I believe everyone deserves to be treated with respect, honesty and understanding, at whatever point in their life they are in.

I work with adults aged 18 and over, including older adults who may be facing the challenges that can come later in life. I also have considerable experience supporting people who have taken on caring roles within their families or relationships. Across both of my careers, I have spent many years supporting individuals and families through serious illness, bereavement and major life changes and at the end of life.

I welcome people of all races, cultures, religions, genders, sexual orientations and neurotypes, and I am committed to providing a service that is inclusive, respectful and free from discrimination.

Hours

Monday - Thursday 8am - 7pm

Individual Session Rate

£75. Concessions available in discussion with therapist

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